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May 7, 2010

Another Visit to Bay Ridge

Filed under: Bay Ridge, Client Stories, Immigrants — admin @ 3:49 pm

Last week, in Bay Ridge, TJ Mills from Justice for Our Neighbors came back as our guest to speak to the women at the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center. We like to bring in outside speakers with special expertise when we can.  TJ is an immigration law expert.  And as he answered one question after another from a group of 20+ women, I thought about TJ’s special skills to serve immigrants in need.

It’s not just that he knows rules like how long you have to wait to apply for a green card. TJ understands how to heal families. The questions like “How do I bring my husband to the US?” and “How do I bring my son here?” speak of families separated by thousands of miles, and a confusing system of immigration laws. TJ answers questions and starts to clear up the mysteries. Questions like “Who can apply as a refugee?” and “How can you prove persecution?” speak of even greater troubles, perhaps.

TJ patiently answers all these questions, explaining the intricacies of immigration law, while Fadia (the BAAFC program director) translates everything. The questions don’t stop for nearly two hours.

Suddenly someone asks the question “Is it legal to raise the rent on a tenant who is over 60 years old?”  TJ looks stunned. He looks at me. We both laugh! This is not his area of expertise! I jump up and answer the question, and a stream of housing law questions begin. We cut this line of questions short, so we can take full advantage of TJ while we have him. I will come back next month to answer their housing law questions.

The women ask these questions without any apparent concern or embarrassment because of the people around them in this small, packed room, listening to their questions, and then to the answers. They all have difficult questions to ask, and there’s no judgment here. They’re all here hoping for answers.

We are extremely grateful for our partnership with TJ Mills and the ministry of Justice for Our Neighbors, a project of the United Methodist Committee on Relief.

To learn more about their program,  visit their website.

~Sandhya

October 22, 2009

In the Bay Ridge Community

Filed under: Bay Ridge — brooklynjubilee @ 4:31 pm
Sandhya teaches tenants rights at the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center

Sandhya teaches tenant's rights at the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center

This year, we began serving at the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center in Bay Ridge. The center offers English language classes and help with citizenship tests for Arab-speaking, predominantly Muslim women. During our last class in Bay Ridge, teaching this lovely group of Arab-American women about tenant’s rights in NYC, a young high school girl used my camera to take a few photographs for me. Understanding there were certain cultural sensitivities, I assured the women that we wouldn’t show their faces to anyone, only the backs of their heads. Fadia, the director of the program, urged me to keep my word. “If their family members see them, they could come and kill them.” She was not joking. And I believed her.  Then it really began to sink in to me, what a remarkable community Fadia has created for my new Muslim friends.

Fadia Farag, Exec. Director of the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center, with Sandhya after class

Fadia Farag, Exec. Director of the Brooklyn Arab American Friendship Center, with Sandhya after class

In a world where letting your face be seen, even by accident, could lead to your death, how carefully must you consider who you are willing to trust?  And yet, Fadia’s center attracts many Muslim women every week to learn English  and receive study help for their citizenship tests. They freely talk with Fadia, and others who like me who are not Muslim, welcoming our friendship and counsel. I don’t believe I’ve ever been covered with kisses after a training until the first time I went to visit the center. One woman insisted I take her scarf as a gift! So when I explained that their pictures were being taken, and we would protect them from exposure, not one woman left. More than anything, it seems that the linguistic isolation, rather than cultural, has created barriers around them, barriers to their knowledge about the law. They are eager to learn this year as we visit on a monthly basis.  We are priviledged to have their trust, to bring other Brooklyn Jubilee volunteers to teach about housing and other areas of the law.